Judith's Legacy

By Dean Rowe

I'm doing it for Judith!

Judith and I met on a blind date in April 1954. Her aunt and a friend of mine set us up and, as they say, the rest is history. We married on 12 May 1956 and spent 60 happy years together before noticing that something was wrong.

Judith and I were regular walkers, and being from Aldinga, we liked to spend our mornings taking it all in, wandering around the nearby towns. It was back in September 2015 upon returning from one of our favouritesthe walk along The Esplanadethat we first knew something was wrong.

Judith was in severe abdominal pain, and we had to call an ambulance. She had an ultrasound at the hospital, and seven days after evasive surgery, the surgeon advised us it was Ovarian Cancer. He suggested chemo treatment begin as soon as possible. Judith was 79 years of age.

Even during chemo, we continued to walk together whenever she felt up to it. I remember sometimes we would take the bus timetable with us, ready for 'Plan B'. I was with her during every treatment and doctor’s appointments for 18 months, and I liked to think that support helped her get through it.

Another round of chemo was somewhat encouraging; there was some reduction, but her final scan in February 2017 showed that the tumours were getting bigger. There had been a 40 per cent increase in just five weeks. It all became too much for her, one of the tumours penetrated the bowel, and she passed peacefully on 8 March 2017, 14 days after with our family celebrated her 82nd birthday not knowing it would be our last.

I was lost without her, so decided to honour her memory by recreating one of our fondest pastimes—walking the 6km Shiraz Trail from Willunga to McLaren Vale. Now, every February, the local community and I come together to complete the walk as part of my fundraising for Judith’s Legacy. By doing it during February, Ovarian Cancer Awareness Month, it is also a special way to celebrate around the time of her birthday on 25 February. What first began as a reflective walk has snowballed to much more—raffles, auctions, luncheons, car boot sales. I’ve caught the fundraising bug, and it feels so great to be doing it all with such a supportive community of people. With COVID having quite an impact on my usual fundraising activities, I am up to my ears in raffle prizes, and hoping to get back out into the community to sell raffle tickets once again.

Ovarian cancer rarely receives the attention or the media of other more common cancers. But with almost no symptoms until it’s advanced, it’s often called 'the silent killer'—we knew nothing about it until it was too late. My aim was to raise awareness of this cancer, and to do my bit to raise some money.

I’m hoping you can support me do it for Judith and Do It For Cancer.

To find out more about what fundraising I’m up to, follow Judith’s Walk on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/judithswalkwillunga/

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Thank you Dean for everything you continue to do xx You are an inspiration.

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Lynda Caporaso

Dean you are one of the sweetest people I have ever seen, keep doing what you are doing. All my love xoxo

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Kerry Bosisto

Keep going, you are doing great work. Judith would be proud of your effort.

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David Voss

All the very best Dean. Wish I could donate a whole lot more x

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Fiona Roberts

We met you today Dean while walking on Granite Island and you told me yours and Judith's story. All the best in your endeavour to reach your goal and what a wonderful cause you are helping to support. Fiona and Peter

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Thank you Dean for your kind fundraiser and for introducing us to the ParkRun.

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Biasi

Thanks for always volunteering at Parkrun 😁

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Dom Liddle

Hi Dean, I just saw on the news what happened. Sorry to hear this. It’s not much but I hope it helps!

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Lili

🩵🩵🩵 Lots of love to Dean and Judith, Love from Lili

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From this big old swear bear - I’m so proud of all your efforts 🩷

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